Wednesday, 6 November 2024

Life Lately

 


The golden shades of autumn are gently disappearing, and the landscape is being transformed once again. Stark, bare trees and dull grey skies. Dark mornings and even darker evenings. This really isn't my favourite time of year.
I'm feeling weary. I've been kept busy at work all this week and my hours are still uncertain. Days are hurried, once again, and brief moments of calm are few and far between. It sometimes feel like I'm on a treadmill wishing, just occasionally, that I could press the pause button and step off for a while.




Last week I managed to do exactly that, and it was lovely. A much longed for trip over to the North East finally came to fruition. Our visit was originally planned several years ago now, but for one reason or another, it simply never happened. We were only away for two nights, but it felt as though it was much longer, and we enjoyed some beautiful sunny weather while we were there. 




We stayed in Berwick-Upon-Tweed, but managed to visit much of the surrounding area, including Bamburgh, Seahouses and Alnwick. The coastline there is just beautiful, and I hope we might get chance to return and explore some more. I'd especially love to visit The Farne Islands, which you can just about see, if you zoom in on the middle photograph above. Boat trips there can be booked from one of the many tour operators in Seahouses, which looked to be very popular on the day we visited, as there were some rather long queues. Another time, I would also quite like to cross the causeway over to Lindisfarne. During our stay, the tide times would have only allowed for an incredibly short visit, so we decided it wouldn't have been worthwhile.


We enjoyed some lovely walks along the sand. The beaches appeared to go on for miles, and I lost count of the amount of times I warned Lily not to get wet feet. She could have easily taken her boots off, but instead she insisted on chancing her luck with the waves. I shouldn't be surprised, just like me, she feels  happy by the water. The sea air and sunshine felt wonderful and restorative, and for just a short time I could feel at ease. 


All the castles were magnificent. We sat and ate our lunch here, enjoying the view.


We never did make it to the pumpkin patch this year, so back at home, we carved our very own home grown pumpkins ready for Hallowe'en. I love how they all vary in shape and size. Of course, I toasted the seeds for a delicious snack, and the flesh was roasted, along with some leftover squash, and quickly turned into curried pumpkin soup.


This year, as well as the usual cobwebs and spiders, we also had a cauldron of bats in our porch. Thankfully, our spookily dressed trick-or-treaters didn't appear to mind them. 


At the weekend, we wrapped up nice and warm, and met up with some friends at our local bonfire.


To stick with tradition, I also took along some of my home made treacle toffee.

Looking ahead, I feel more optimistic. Plans are being put in place, which should hopefully help to make things a little less stressful for me. I'm continuing to keep my main focus on home and family, and I'm really starting to get excited for Christmas now. Chatting with Lily earlier in the week, we have decided to spend our December weekends much closer to home this year, and I am very much looking forward to it. 

J. X

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  1. I'm glad you were able to get away for a couple of days and relax. Beautiful photos as usual. Love those homegrown Jack-o-Lanterns!

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    1. Thank you, Bless. It was lovely to enjoy the sunshine and blue sky, especially as the days have been so grey and gloomy since. Xx

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  2. Oh what a wonderful break you had, such stunning photos. Glad things are being resolved. And how tall Lily is getting 😻. B x

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    1. Lily is almost as tall as i am, Barbara. Xx

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  3. These grey days are blending into one, everywhere feels so dull and gloomy, I'm glad your break was sunny for you, sunshine will always pick me up.

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    1. Yesterday, in the staff room, someone commented that we've only had eighteen minutes of sunshine, this week. Xx

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  4. Oh, it's a beautiful part of the country. The beaches are so wide open, and there's so much to see and do, your photos make me want to make a return trip too. How special is that to carve your own home grown pumpkins, and the toffee looks delicious. It's always parkin here for Bonfire Night, though I have to say that I usually buy it rather than make it.

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    1. It was our first time visiting the area, but it won't be our last. It was beautiful.
      Thank you. I quite liked our family of pumpkins :)

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  5. Lovely friend, I am happy you got away for some time away to rest and recharge. I pray this holiday season is joyous and calming for you at home with your people. Your pumpkins are amazing, and I love the way you used the remainder of the pumpkins. Your toffee looks delicious! Hugs from across the pond!

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    1. Thank you for your kind wishes, Billie Jo. Christmas will feel very different again, this year, but I will be sure to enjoy some of our usual traditions, and maybe even enjoy making some new ones. Xx

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  6. A part of the country I've never been to but it look gorgeous, those huge skies! I'm glad your break did you the power of good. xxx

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    1. I certainly felt the benefit of those huge skies and fresh sea air. It helped to put everything in perspective. Xx

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  7. Those photos! Stunning. Such a beautiful area to visit. We went many years ago, camping in Seahouses. We were there with five other families. One day we visited Bamburgh castle, piling children and adults in cars. Upon arriving, we realised that Annie was not with us. We were so sure she was in her friends car. She had gone to the loo and missed the departure… She was a teenager already and we were glad she had a phone. She still reminds us of the day we “abandoned” her. Ah, the memories your photos triggered! I am glad you had a lovely time. Also glad that you are able to slow down a bit, and that plans are in place to make your days a little less stressful. The treacle toffee looks yummy, I must find a recipe. I imagine it tastes a little like chewy treacle tart. Have a lovely rest of the week x

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    1. Poor Annie! You can laugh about it now, but I expect that's something that none of you will forget in a hurry. Thank goodness for mobile phones. Bamburgh Castle looked very impressive, especially the view from our walk along the beach. We didn't go inside on this occasion. Instead, we chose to visit the Grace Darling Museum.
      Here is the recipe link:
      https://alongthewaywithj.blogspot.com/2019/11/november-5th.html
      The treacle toffee is really good. Just mind your teeth :)

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  8. I do hope my earlier comment was received okay?
    I will come back again and check ... blogger does sometimes put me in spam folder!

    All the best Jan

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    1. I'm so sorry, Jan, but there aren't any comments in my spam folder. Xx

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  9. Hello Jules, I'm so happy to hear you were able to get away for a few nights. It sounds as if you had a lovely time. Your pictures are stunning! What kind of camera do you use? Your carved pumpkins are so cute and festive! And your toffee looks delicious! Have a lovely weekend ahead!

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    1. Hi Julia. I don't use a camera, just my mobile phone. The photographs then upload directly to my Google cloud, which makes it very simple for me to post them to my blog. Xx

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    2. Hello Jules. It's time I upgraded my very old mobile phone! Your photos are so bright and clear. Have a great Sunday!

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  10. It's so nice that you could use your own pumpkins to make the jack-o'-lanterns. And your little break away on the North East Coast looks perfect. Hope things calm down for you soon, it sounds like they might. Sharon. X

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    1. Thank you, Sharon. It was a lovely break, and our two nights were just enough, on this occasion. Xx

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  11. Oh dear ... it seems my first comment went and completely disappeared!!!

    I can recall that I had commented on your lovely photographs and how wonderful to see blue skies as apposed to the very grey ones a lot of the UK has experienced lately.

    I think the pumpkin carving looks great, very well done.

    With another weekend approaching, I wish you a good one.

    All the best Jan

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    1. I'm so sorry your comment disappeared, Jan. Blogger does strange things from time to time.
      Yes, our trip was lovely, and those blue skies were the perfect tonic, especially as the weather has been so grey and gloomy since. Although, we've not had any rain, at least.
      Happy weekend! Xx

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  12. I so hear you on the treadmill Jules. I feel like I have been on one for a few weeks now. Life got so full there was no room for any blogging or reading blogs and many other things that I love to do. It is really hard when the balance tips out of kilter isn't it. I hope you can get yours back to where you want and need it to be.

    I love the Northumberland coast, it is a wonderful place to visit, I am glad to hear that you enjoyed your trip and it was the tonic you needed.

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    1. It's hard, isn't it. And I feel like I want to explain, but I don't want to come across as being too moany or complaining. I'm better at acknowledging that I can't do everything, and I've been much more firm with myself about what I can hope to achieve day to day.
      Our trip to the coast was the perfect tonic. I didn't return feeling completely refreshed, but it definitely helped. Xx

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  13. Time is racing on Jules…you really must spend some time on yourselves…I can empathise totally with the treadmill feeling…or maybe a merry go round…too afraid of trying to get off in case I get hurled across somewhere. X

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    1. I completely understand, Jackie. I'm sure there must be a balance to be found somewhere. Xx

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  14. Hello dear Friend. Thanks for visiting by the blog. What gorgeous photos! I hope you feel comforted in your decision to make future holiday time easier on yourself and slowing down. Blessings to you. xoxo

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    1. Thank you for your comment, Carrie, and please accept my apologies for this late reply. During December, we often take a little trip somewhere to see the Christmas lights, which is wonderful and always gets me feeling festive, but it all takes time and planning. If we do go away, this year, it will be more spontaneous :)

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  15. You always have the best "escapes" to help alleviate the stress of everyday days...the photos are stunning, the castles, the water, the blue skies - I'm envious. We just don't have those sorts of things nearby...I'm feeling the anxiety that comes with the season, even though I told myself I wouldn't. It's not as if they change the date of Christmas...I should know better and be better prepared by now. Sigh...I need to find little escapes to help reduce "that' feeling...I promised myself I would, but then something comes along that seems to make the weekend busy and I put that aside. I need to commit to at least a stroll on a Sunday afternoon, or drive through the country. Do you have all many lovely things close by, or do you travel a bit to get to them? I'm just trying to find a way to do something similar; figure out how to fit it in...although no castles here - I'm an old-fashioned soul (not for everyone, I know) but oh, I love that old history!
    PS...the pumpkins are sweet...memories in the making!

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    1. Dearest Mary. Thank you so much for your lovely comment, and I am sorry that it has taken me so long to reply.
      On this occasion, our escape was around a three hour drive away from home. And I'm not the most patient of travellers, so I like to stop off somewhere on the way. We're already thinking of somewhere to visit in January, maybe a little closer to home, just to alleviate the winter gloom.
      I think we all tend to put too much pressure on ourselves over the festive season, no matter how hard we try not to. I've really cut back in recent years, which has been a huge help, but preparations still feel far too rushed, when I have limited time on a weekend. I try to prioritise 'presence over presents', and I think I must be doing something right, as just the other day, Lily was reminiscing about the Christmas Eve we walked up Catbells, and also last year when we went out for brunch with friends. We're looking forward to going ice skating again, this year, which is always a favourite festive activity. Xx

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