I'd just like to say thank you so much for your kind words in response to my previous post. You are all so lovely. The last two weeks, I've been focusing more than ever on my wellbeing. This has included paring back, prioritising, and spending time outdoors, enjoying all that this time of year has to offer. Pretty much everything that I've overlooked recently. It's left me feeling much more calm and in control than I have for a while now. I'm almost certain transitioning from one season to another has also had some sort of effect. For unknown reasons, I often feel jittery and unsettled whenever the seasons begin to shift. Does anyone else get like this?
I've been strict about ensuring that I food shop for the whole week, along with budgeting and meal planning. This saves me valuable time Monday to Friday, when I know I will be kept busy taking care of other things.
And I've made a plan. It's quite a vague plan, but it's still a plan. There have been plenty of times in my life when I haven't wanted to look too far ahead, but I'm at a stage where I need some sort of direction. Nothing is set in stone, but I have an idea of where I'd like to be in the next five years and the things that I need to achieve in order to make it happen.
Back soon.
J. X
I love tidy, makes life so much easier, a plan is good.
ReplyDeleteI like my home to be a calm and uncluttered space. X
DeleteOh, what peaceful scenery-the photo taken through the window is so clever-I love it. I do get anxious as the seasons change-I hate that I’m seeing Christmas decorations in the stores now - there’s so much beauty to enjoy without that rush. I’m still working on uncluttered, some rooms are better than others! But I do agree, being able to easily find what we need makes life much nicer. And whatever you’re planning sounds intriguing-look forward to reading more! Hope it’s a good week for both of you.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mary. The window photograph was taken from Wanscale Bothy, overlooking Butermere and Crummock water.
DeleteI've recently been enjoying everything autumn has to offer, whilst trying to avoid everything Christmas, which has suddenly appeared in stores here. Much as I love Christmas, it's still far too early for me. Xx
You do "sound" calmer and more relaxed. It takes time but you sound like you are making progress. Well done on the meal planning and it's great that the house is organized. Lovely photos as always. I find the change from summer to fall/winter more difficult, what with the time change and all, than winter to spring/summer. Maybe because I don't like winter as much as I do summer. But, I'm learning to see the positive aspects of each season. I generally don't plan too far ahead, but, it's good to have a long term plan and, in the mean time, short term plans are good, too. :)
ReplyDeleteThe transitioning thing is a strange one. I feel it in the spring as well, even though I am always excited for it's arrival.
DeleteI'm learning to take control of what I can, Bless. I realise I can't control the behaviour of others, only how I respond to it. Xx
Your photos show majestic scenes and I like the photo window. Spending time outside is helpful to keep spirits up and health too.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Yes, I agree. And, unfortunately, due to work commitments, I haven't been spending as much time outdoors as I would like.
DeleteIt's time to change that, I think. Xx
These beautiful photos, especialy the framed view have made me feel calm and relaxed!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you feel like you're a bit more "in control", you've had chance to have a tidy up and that you've formulated a plan.
I do feel the same as you when Winter approaches, those dark days aren't my favourite. xxx
I'm not sure what it is, Vix. I also feel unsettled as we transition into spring, even though I'm looking forward to those long summer days. X
DeleteI think we come to a point, when life runs away with us, when we realise we need to slow down a little and do the things which bring us joy. Life is too short not to do at least some of the things we want to do. Your photos are always so beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Jo. There are so many plates I'm spinning just now, but I need to try and remember to look after myself sometimes :)
DeleteSounds like you are in a much better place. Such beautiful images of your lovely corner of the world. Keep planning. B x
ReplyDeletePlans are good. Xx
DeleteHello, my dear friend. I went back and read your previous post, and I completely understand exactly what you are going through. I am happy you are prioritizing yourself and recognizing when it is time to step back, take time, and reassess. I have done it myself and found peace. I pray you continue to flourish in your beautiful world!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Billie Jo. I am blessed with beautiful surroundings, which I hope to spend more time in moving forwards. Xx
DeleteYes, seasonal switch jitters very recognisable. Yes, tidy and organised really helps with life stuff. Thank you for you wonderful posts. Jill x
ReplyDeleteIt's quite a relief to know it isn't just me feeling unsettled at the change of the seasons. We're fully into autumn here, now, and I'm feeling better already. X
DeleteIt was lovely to read your words "it's left me feeling much more calm and in control than I have for a while now" ... I'm smiling and feeling very pleased for you.
ReplyDeleteI'm also smiling with pleasure when I look at your photographs ... they are beautiful.
I do enjoy the Autumn and October can be a wonderful month.
Keep on enjoying each and every day.
All the best Jan
Thank you, Jan. But, as always, I'm a work in progress :)
DeleteAutumn is putting on a wonderful display here. And I'm enoying the cosy evenings. Xx
Hello lovely Jules! I'm so happy to hear you're prioritizing yourself in all the right ways. I think whatever helps our mental and physical well being is the right answer. I hope you continue to find what feeds the best parts and makes you happy and balanced and are able to better manage the anxieties or issues that can creep in. Those photos are absolutely stunning!! You have so much beauty there - I would want to be out in it all the time too. Blessings always, and I'm so glad you keep us posted on things. xoxo
ReplyDeleteThank you, Carrie. I'm trying my best to take care of myself, but it isn't always straightforward.
DeleteI am, however, so very grateful to be surrounded by such beautiful countryside. Spending time outdoors nourishes my soul. Xx
How wonderful your photos are. Yes, I know that change of seasons feeling well, I always feel low at those times. Like you I also like calm and uncluttered around home with gentle daily routines. Take care:)
ReplyDeleteI wonder what it is that makes us feel that way. Perhaps we just need the reminder to be kinder to ourselves. Xx
DeleteWe too have a vague plan but veer off it now and then, but I always say we need to stop and smell the flowers.. lovely photos.
ReplyDeleteVague plans are good. We all need to veer from time to time. X
DeleteI am glad you have a plan. I like a good plan, should probably think about my next 5 years, too. How wonderful to find more time to spend outdoors, your happy place x
ReplyDeleteI think I needed a plan. A vague idea of where I'm headed, at least :)
DeleteYet, I try not to think too far ahead. Xx
It's good to have a plan and I hope things are still feeling a little calmer now especially as the holidays are coming up. Hurrah! X
ReplyDeleteThanks, Shazza. I imagine you'll be looking forward to your week off :) Xx
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